DWMT

Stop wasting time
on the wrong person.

You tell DWMT what matters to you. Then you talk out your dates the way you'd tell a friend, and it keeps an honest read on how well each person fits your list, nobody else's.

App Store coming soon

How it works

Start with how you met

Add someone and tell the story. The bar, the app, the friend's birthday. DWMT listens and asks what a sharp friend would ask.

Debrief whenever there's something new

A date, a week of texting, a call. Talk or type, a couple of minutes. Your voice is transcribed on your phone and never uploaded.

Get an honest score, with an honest range

One conversation gets you an early read, not a verdict. The score sharpens as you learn more, and it tells you how sure it is. DWMT's reads are generated by AI. You are never talking to a human, and no human reads your debriefs.

Green flags and red flags, measured against your own answers

"You said you want kids someday. She said never." Every flag cites what you told us matters, informed by published relationship research.

Know what to find out next

After every debrief: the one or two things still missing from the picture, and how to bring them up without making it weird.

Private by design

Nobody you talk about ever sees any of it. Delete anyone, or everything, in two taps. Your data is never sold or used to train AI.

Pricing

Free

$0
forever
  • People cards and notes
  • One debrief per person
  • The basic score
  • Your first find-out-next guide

Premium

$6.99
per week, or $19.99 per month
  • Unlimited debriefs
  • Everything DWMT notices, unlocked
  • Guides before every date
  • Patterns across your dating life

Billed through the App Store. Auto-renews until you cancel in your App Store settings.